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Highlights: “Sorrow,” recalling Miriam’s upbringing in South Carolina, is reminiscent of The Help, while “The Student” and “Enormously Valuable,” with their college English department setting, recall John Williams’s classic, Stoner.
Synopsis: Nine linked stories focus on the life of Miriam Batson, a writer and adjunct professor at a Minnesota college. Now in her late forties, Miriam faces the challenge of caring for her aging mother. Indeed, several of the stories are inspired by Alden’s experience as a caregiver for her late mother, who suffered from dementia.



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The close third-person perspective creates intimate knowledge of the main character and encourages sympathy for her professional and personal struggles.


The final five stories about Miriam’s mother’s decline from dementia might have been combined into a single novella. Parenthetical phrases, rhetorical questions, and exclamation points are noticeably plentiful.

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Miriam Batson, the protagonist of these nine short stories, first appeared in Paulette Alden’s previous collection, Feeding the Eagles (1988). Like Alden herself, Miriam is a writer and sometime college professor based in Minnesota. Although it is intriguing to ponder how autobiographical these stories might be, ultimately it makes little difference to a reader’s enjoyment. The close third-person perspective creates such intimate knowledge of the main character that one cannot help but feel sympathy for her professional and personal struggles.

The opening story, “The Student,” is among the strongest. Miriam learns that Brian, one of the students in her advanced short story class, has attempted suicide – in three different ways. Horror cedes to compassion as she realizes how he must have been suffering, even while keeping up a cheerful exterior in class. As she visits Brian in the hospital during his recovery, Miriam is taken aback by her feelings for him. Hesitant to borrow spiritual language, she still senses that she and Brian have a soul connection. At the same time, she realizes that no relationship is entirely one thing or another; their teacher-student dynamic may resemble a parent-child link, but sex keeps creeping in unexpectedly. This story, which reminded me of “Rising Tide” from Elizabeth Spencer’s recent collection, Starting Over, beautifully illustrates the often surprising bonds that can form across age, gender, and class boundaries.

In “Sorrow,” told in the present tense, Miriam learns of the death of one of her black nannies and returns to South Carolina to pay her respects. Filled with memories of segregation, this story shares the social conscience of Kathryn Stockett’s The Help. “Enormously Valuable” returns to the first story’s academic setting, with Miriam receiving notification that someone else – a less experienced man – has gotten the teaching job she applied for. She decides to take legal advice to determine whether this is a case of sex discrimination. This story tips over into melodrama slightly, but is still an affecting look at career disappointment. The themes of bureaucracy and petty infighting in a university English department recall John Williams’s Stoner (see our review).

“Swimming, Snow” was commissioned as the Minnesota Center for Book Arts’ 1993 Winter Book. Miriam slowly starts to heal after her father’s death, thanks to the therapeutic effects of activities like massage, classical music, and sex. This one is a perfect segue into the collection’s last five stories, which together reflect on Alden’s experiences as a caregiver during her mother’s final years with dementia. “Her Mother’s Pocketbook” begins with Miriam moving her 85-year-old mother from South Carolina to a Minnesota senior’s apartment. “In many ways, her once-formidable mother is helpless.”

Five months later, she has to be moved again, this time to a nursing home – the subject of both “Not Ready” and “Home.” Miriam’s mother is losing her mental capacities and physical independence, yet she remains opinionated and strong-willed; “What a mix of powerlessness and willfulness, of meekness and feistiness she was.” Miriam soon has to face previously unimaginable tasks, such as administering an enema to her own mother. She “felt a kind of wrenching compassion, not exactly for her mother, but for flesh, this mortal flesh.” Alden gives a powerful sense of how repetitive and unpleasant many of the caregiver’s chores can become; Miriam “got so sick of her mother, her need, she could die or scream.”

Some of these stories repeat basic information, probably a result of them starting as separate tales. However, they might have been edited to cut redundant details, or even combined into a multi-part novella. In “Lost Lake,” set a year after the move to the nursing home, Miriam and her husband take a chance on a two-night lake lodge vacation with her mother, but after one sleepless night they decide to give up and leave early. It is a bittersweet account of facing up to reality and accepting limitations, but also of deepening compassion. Miriam can now better understand how frightening dementia must be for her mother: she “couldn’t imagine what that was like—each moment new, maybe scary, nothing familiar.”

The title story, the last in the collection, does indeed have a stand-alone feel, combining all the emotions of the previous four into the most shrewdly crafted of the tales, rich with symbolism. It opens with Miriam driving to a monastery for a writing retreat. Although it is April, it is snowing, and Nat King Cole’s song “Unforgettable” is on the radio. Ironically, that title is also the name given to her mother’s nursing home’s remodeling campaign. Miriam has been taking beginner’s Italian lessons; her bewilderment is an echo of her mother’s confusion about language. In addition, Easter is coming up the following week, and the symbology of death and restoration plays a significant role. Miriam can no longer deny that her mother will be dead soon, yet she feels that she will live on – perhaps even through Miriam’s work: “Writing is her religion, her resurrection. Long after her mother is gone, she will have this moment. Her mother will rise from the dead and live again in those words.”

As in Susan Allen Toth’s No Saints around Here (see our review), Alden tenderly conveys the overwhelming difficulties and small joys of being the primary caregiver for a loved one with serious health problems. She is unflinchingly realistic but not humorless in the face of impending death, like Roz Chast in Can’t We Talk about Something More Pleasant? (see our review). Many have likened the Miriam Batson tales to Olive Kitteridge, a novel made up of linked short stories, and Alden indeed shares Elizabeth Strout’s talent for thoroughly reproducing a middle-aged woman’s life by way of sensitive, salient details. You do not have to share any of Miriam’s experiences to value her insight and admire her courage. I daresay every reader will find at least one aspect of these stories to be, as the title suggests, simply unforgettable.


With thanks to the author for sending an electronic version of the book. I was provided with a free copy in exchange for my honest review.

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About the Author

A former Stegner Fellow and Jones Lecturer in Creative Writing at Stanford, Alden has taught memoir and fiction writing extensively, at the University of Minnesota, Carleton College, St. Olaf College, and the Key West Literary Seminar. Originally from South Carolina, Alden lives in Minneapolis, where she critiques manuscripts and blogs on books and writing on her website. She is the author of Feeding the Eagles, an earlier collection of Miriam Batson short stories, Crossing the Moon (1998), a memoir, and the novel The Answer to Your Question, which won the Kindle Book Review’s 2013 Best Indie Book Award in the suspense category.

Unforgettable: Short Stories (Paperback)

By (author): Paulette Alden

The nine stories in UNFORGETTABLE are about the presence of the past, the power of memory, and the enduring nature of love. They follow Miriam Batson, the protagonist of Paulette Alden’s earlier collection, FEEDING THE EAGLES, into middle age, as she navigates the suicide attempt of one of her college students; the death of a beloved maid from her childhood; the shock and anger of a job rejection possibly due to sex discrimination; and the sudden death of her father. Five of the stories track Miriam’s efforts to stave off putting her mother in a nursing home, as her mother succumbs to Alzheimer’s. Anyone who has experienced such a situation will relate to the poignancy, guilt, and sometimes painful humor involved in caring for a failing parent.
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Rebecca Foster

An American transplant to Reading, England – a fitting place for a fiendish bibliophile. After six years as a library assistant, I am recklessly embarking on a freelance writing career. I review books for Kirkus Indie, The Bookbag, For Books' Sake, We Love This Book, and Bookmarks magazine, and also volunteer with Greenbelt Festival's literature program. I read everything from theology to popular science, but some favorite genres are literary fiction, biography and memoir, historical fiction, graphic novels, and nature writing. Check out all my articles.



    Rebecca and Bookkaholic, thank you for this thoughtful, in-depth review of UNFORGETTABLE: SHORT STORIES. It’s really wonderful for me as an Indie author to have this kind of intelligent, articulate attention to my collection of short stories.

    Welcome Jerde

    I loved reading about each of the stories and the comparisons to some of my favorite authors. Short story collections never get enough press. I can’t wait to read this one!


    Great thorough review of an excellent book. Thanks for this Rebecca Foster

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